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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The biggest red flag is that you don't realize that you're being abused. This is emotional abuse. He screamed and ranted for 15 minutes about packing a car? No one should ever scream at you like this. Please get out now. [b]You won't be single forever, I promise.[/b] [/quote]
I wonder what makes people say that. As if they know. I personally think OP has a healthy way of looking at it. She's evaluating getting out v. being alone. Not getting out v. meeting someone fabulous which may or may not happen. [/quote]

[b]Being alone is a thousand times more worthwhile than being abused.[/b]  How in the world can you possibly do a cost benefit analysis of being abused?[/quote]

I was asking about reassuring OP that she will definitely meet someone better. Please re-read if you bother to respond.[/quote]

I read what you said -- you said "I personally think OP has a healthy way of looking at it.  She's evaluating getting out v. being alone. Not getting out v. meeting someone fabulous...."

I repeat:  how can you possibly do an analysis weighing being abused vs. the alternatives?[/quote]

First, I don't know if OP is abused. I cannot possibly make that determination, and I will pay good bucks for your crystal ball if you agree to sell.

Second, let me repeat my question: Why do promise OP she will not stay single forever? Many women do after divorce. Again, I don't know what side of statistics OP will land on. Apparently, you do. I am curious how, please elaborate.[/quote]

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