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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]The situation is not really sexual, though that is how it is manifesting itself. The reality is that you are depressed, empty, and bored. The office sexual interest is an escape which perks you up.[/b] The sexual encounter could be great, but the other side will not be so great. Be honest with yourself and see if there is not something else at work here. Good luck.[/quote] This is very true. I know this after having an affair-ending marriage. I'm not sorry my marriage is over, but am sorry for what I did to end it. You asked about therapy -- yes!! Go to therapy. Figure out why you feel this need/why you're having these thoughts. I guarantee you, it is some combination of circumstances and feelings PP notes above. I wish I had gone to therapy before the affair. I doubt I'd have had the affair, and would have been able to exit the marriage with my head held high.[/quote]
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