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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My 8 yo knocks regularly on the door on one friend, unannounced. This kid comes to our house unannounced just as much. If either are busy they return home. Sometimes they play for 10 minutes. Yesterday it was 3 hours.  I think it's wonderful to have a friend so close and I love not having to coordinate play dates anymore. [/quote]

+1.   If you don't want the kid there, just say "we can't right now".  NBD.  I've done this once or twice.  I also love that we don't have to "schedule" a playdate, and kids can just be kids, roaming the neighborhood, looking for someone to play with.  Everything else in their lives are so scheduled.  I'm happy to have this one thing not be scheduled so much.  It gives the kids skills to seek out playmates, things to do, without parents scheduling it for them.[/quote]

That is your family value.  You are missing not everyone feels like dealing with your unsupervised roaming kids.  Tell your brats to keep off others property too.  I get so sick of kids playing in our yard uninvited.  It is not a playground.  You may be ok with kids knocking on your door, but not everyone wants the disruption.  Someone may be sick/sleeping or something else going on.  Call first.  Every time your kid knocks, I will send them away telling them to call first.  At some point, they do it enough, I assume something is wrong with that kid and family and they are not welcome in our home.[/quote]

Are you real or a troll? I kind of hope the former; it's thrilling to imagine there are people this unpleasant out there in the world, living normal lives.[/quote]

LOL.  I wonder if their house has a "no solicitors" sign AND a "kids keep away" sign on his/her front door.   In my day there were signs on people's doors that were identified as safe houses for kids to go if the kid encountered a dangerous problem.  [/quote]

There is a difference from a kid coming over because they have a problem and just to play at odd hours as the parents want free child care/break from their kids.  One neighbor kid comes over if he doesn't want to be alone or forgets his key (we usually have one but he will forget to give it back).  That's fine but no, I don't want your kid knocking at dinner/homework time saying mom said it was ok to come over when mom never asked me.[/quote]

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