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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has your mom forgiven him?[/quote]

What the fuck does this have to do with anything?  OP's mother LET him abuse her?![/quote]

You are woefully ignorant re domestic abuse.[/quote]

Unfortunately, I'm all too familiar with it.  I was on the receiving end.  You can spout all you like about how OP's mother was a victim too but when it boils down to it, she failed to protect OP.  We can agree to disagree on that.  Whether OP's mother has forgiven OP's father should have no part in OP's decision.  Two different women, two different relationships.  OP needs to make her decision independent of what her mother has decided.[/quote]

OP here.  My mother did not consider what my father did to me as abuse.  She condoned it and did not disagree with his actions.  She considered it punishment or the consequences of my bad behavior.  So there is no forgiveness there.  Now If you asking if she has forgiven him for cheating on her, yes she has.

I have decided that I am not reaching out.  The dream has stopped consuming me for the time being and my brain is back to remembering how life was with him.  I'm sure I'll regret this decision but I don't want to face the prospect that he doesn't care about me. I'm trying to get to back to not giving a fu&K.

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