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[quote=Anonymous]OP, how much custody does your boyfriend have at the moment? And how much time does he actually spend with his kids? If it isn't very much, that should tell you something about what kind of father he'll be. Don't kid yourself that you're such a better wife and therefore he'll be totally different. If he's blowing off his kids now and leaving his wife to deal with most things, he'll treat your child similarly. On the other hand, if he has a lot of custody and is very involved, be prepared for what a time commitment it is. Big kids have a ton of activities, travel sports, etc. This will take your boyfriend away from you and your baby. You will be doing most of the parenting of the baby, on your own or tagging along with big kid activities.[/quote]
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