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[quote=Anonymous]My parents are divorced and remarried to other people.  We were all in college or older when the remarriages happened, so perhaps that's what makes it different.  While I don't have a sibling relationship with my step-siblings, I do feel a familial bond to them.  Maybe like a cousin or something.  Maybe I lucked out on the step-sibling circus though.  My Dad's wife's kids are awesome.  They fit right in.  So do their spouses and children.  I really like spending time with them.  My Mom's Husband's kids are a little weirder.  The local ones are fine, but a little off beat.  They aren't toxic or mean or anything though, so I appreciate having them around, even if I wouldn't choose them.

It's taken years, and a lot of adjusting here and there, but I actually really enjoy the extra family.  We have low expectations of each other, so I think that helps.

I'm glad my parents divorced and found happiness with other people.

OP, I'm sorry it's hard for you. But I think no one ever looks back and wishes they were more exclusive with family.  If you step-siblings aren't drama or toxic, I don't see the problem with having big family gatherings.  Spend time with your brother outside of these events.[/quote]

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