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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your brother cannot "do the right thing" because conceiving a child and never contacting that child and keeping that child a secret can *never* be made right. The whole issue is so messed up and so much bigger than "telling" or "not telling." You cannot force your brother to be a decent person and convincing him to "tell" will not fix this situation. Your brother is incredibly messed up and nothing can protect his children from that or "fix" it. You cannot minimize the fallout from this. You cannot control your brother's behavior. But you can control yours. You can tell him, "I will not deny my nephew. If he calls me 'aunt' on Facebook, I am not going to cover it up and hide it from your children. If your children see it and ask me, I will tell them truthfully that he is my nephew. If they continue to ask questions I will tell them to discuss it with you. If my children ask me, I will tell them the truth. I will not ask them to hide it from anyone." [/quote]
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