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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, your contempt for your DH is coming through loud and clear.

But, you are choosing to stay in your marriage, knowing your DH's limitations. That is a CHOICE you are making. You say "I have moved on" but it doesn't sound like it. It sounds like you are still very bitter and angry and resentful. I really wonder how this situation benefits you. It must, or you would not want to stay in it.

So, ok, I get it--you are blameless. All the trouble resides in your DH. Keep telling yourself that. [/quote]

you extrapolate a lot.  where did i say i was blameless?  i did not.  what i am saying is that my DH is not meeting me halfway, or even 1/4 of the way.  at some point, it gets tiring.  it really, really does.

we have a wonderful family life together with young kids.  we generally enjoy each others company.  in the end, my DH does not think it is important enough to work at it.  there is only so much i can say or do about it.  i can't make him do things.  i am accepting that i cannot change him or that about him.  i am sad, because i miss having a man who wants to have sex with me.  but i alone cannot make it happen.

if you feel the need to keep tearing me down, go for it.  if it makes you feel better rather than having some empathy, go for it.  i will not be returning to this thread because all you are doing is accusing me of not doing enough and letting my DH completely off of the hook.  [/quote]

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