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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not sure how Viagra works, but if a man attempts to get hard on his own & fails, can he then pop the pill and it will be efficient right away?

Or must it be taken a certain time frame prior?

I agree your husband is in a huge state of denial about this issue OP.
Men view their ability to "get it up" as an important component of their manliness and if they fail at it, their man parts aren't the only thing that deflates. So does their egos. Big time!!
Some even can view it as a sign of age + take it as a death in a way. :(

I know it's tough on your part too OP. Please try to practice a bit of patience w/him on this no matter how frustrating and problematic it will be.

Good luck to the two of you.[/quote]

+1 He's not initiating dates because it ends with him having to confront his ED - and he'd rather be in denial (having to take viagra is a bitter pill to swallow, pardon the pun). I would try other ways to connect sexually besides PIV - let him give you an orgasm, touch each other, etc. without worry about his erection. Even so, he may not get hard and that will probably be upsetting to him (and you). But maybe take the pressure off a bit by talking about other ways you can be sexual together and see if that helps. [/quote]

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