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[quote=Anonymous]Or, you can work on this together.

I suspect a lot of this is rooted in his frustration with finding a job.  Sounds like he has given up.  Perhaps he feels as if he is not getting support from you (whether that is true or not).  I know if I were in your situation, I would probably be nagging my DH to get out and start looking, which would probably make things worse.  I am not saying you are doing this.

I may be a little Pollyanna here, but try to think about what attracted you to him in the first place.  Try thinking about the fun times you all have had.  I am betting you are not seeing your REAL husband, but one who is frustrated and is feeling absolutely no self worth.

This is not meant to criticize you, because I sense that you have tried to make things better and the fact that you are in counseling shows that.  But, since you came here looking for some advice, I am suggesting to step back, take a deep breath, and see if you can approach things from a new perspective.

And, OP, I do hope you are able to laugh about this one day WITH your spouse.  Because, while I know you were very upset, your posting was quite humorous.  [/quote]

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