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I don't understand why everyone thinks this plan was thrust or forced upon her/us. Its just something we  discussed as a family where we all, apparently wanted the same thing. It was like a mutual, unwritten expectation and understanding. All these years, I thought we had similar goals and she wanted the same thing! She'd always say things along the lines of, " I can't wait until we have a big family home like the Kardashians" or how, "I just want to have mommy live with me when she's older" etc.

Over the past year she has gone to say things more along the lines of, " I hate my family! No one gets me! I just want to leave somewhere and never come back! And no one will know what I'm doing!" [b]She started not telling me where she was going or who she was with. [/b]She also started losing motivation and goals. All she talked about was how horrible corporate America is and how working is so pointless and all that matters is family and how her goal in life is to have children.

All this is good and well, its just...so sudden and so unexpected. She is welcome to do whatever she wants but you can't tell me it doesn't hurt me when she goes on rants about how she is sick of me and how she wants to disappear from our lives and how she chooses to not hang out with me and speaks ill of our parents.

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I had to laugh at this line because my mother has said the same thing about my sister who is in her twenties.

Look, I'm an older sister so I understand your point. But you have to get out of the mentality that you need to supervise your sister. My mother used to ask me to tell this or that to my sister. It never went over well. Once I let my sister be her own person without any judgement our relationship got much better.[/quote]

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