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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here..thanks for the responses so far.It seems it was only yesterday even though it has been a year since the split.[/quote]

13 years today since the day my world was shattered. Although it does not hurt like it use to, it's still affects me on this date every year. [/quote]

10 years, and there are still times when it all comes flooding back like I am in that moment again.  Infidelity is a form of serious emotional abuse.  Psychologists are increasingly recognizing that this kind of repetitive emotional abuse can cause PTSD-like symptoms.  Google "relational betrayal" or "intimate betrayal".

Feeling like the whole thing is occurring again (or still occurring) is a common symptom of PTSD.  It's called a flashback or re-experiencing.

The difficulty with new relationships is that they often provide triggers which pull one back to the original betrayal.  [/quote]

This is so true. My best friend was cheated on multiple times by her husband but she chose and still chooses to go with him. Any time he has to go out of town for work she is a complete mess for weeks before and until his return. I feel bad for her because that is no way to live. [/quote]

Sounds made up. Then again, I've seen so many "friend of a friend" stories that ended up being complete bullshit that I'm now biased. If women were that cool-headed, the gender dynamics would be a completely different ball game. Your friend is most likely a liar.

Yikes, I know a lady that was in the same boat. Caught him twice, then I guess the light finally went on.  Hired someone in a different city to check up on him for 2 days. Caught.

She didn't tell him, started selling some expensive stuff around the house for a year that he wouldn't miss. Got a good job and hid a lot of money away. 
Did have fun torturing him, had a friend do hang up calls while he was there so he would think the AP was causing trouble. Sent some sexy thongs to herself, asked if he did that. He almost had a melt down, got in a fight with the AP. Hid a sound activated recorder, LOL.

They had 2 kids, and she wanted another so got pregnant. About 8 mo after the baby she served him with papers, all along she had been working with a lawyer.  Ended up with the house, kids and lot's of child support. Today she is happily re-married. He's a much better partner and father to the kids. Her ex is struggling last I heard. [/quote][/quote]

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