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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How did you cope. Would you marry again? What would you differently? Inputs are appreciated. TIA.[/quote] Coping: Therapy. I read every book, website, message board, etc. about infidelity, healthy relationships, etc. Luckily I was working very part-time, mostly at home on my own schedule, so I had the time & space to have a breakdown that summer. Spent a lot of nights at my mom's and girlfriends' houses. Kept busy. Having the dog was a lifeline. Marry again? Yes, just did, about 5 years later. What did I do differently? I didn't pursue him. Gave him space. Took things slowly. Watched out for red flags. Had lots of discussions about trust, the future, etc. But really, falling in love in your late 30s is already very different than falling in love in college. We were more mature. [/quote]
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