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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, I'll flip the script.  Understanding what brought you together may help keep you together.  Why did he marry you?  What kind of lie were you all living then?  What did he say about your future together?

Then, how did it happen you had a baby?  Did you plan it, discuss it?  How didd your husband react?  Surely there have been signs all along?

How does your husband discuss his divorce?  How did you two reflect as a couple of how your marriage would be different?

Honestly, I don't mean this as a criticism - you knew he was divorced and rarely saw his kids from his first marriage.  What made you think he was good marriage material and you all had the same life goals?  That he would be a good father?

Maybe by reflecting on those things, you can develop a bath forward.  What does he say now when you say you want to move home?  Or is it always about him and what's new with him?  [/quote]

Reading this kind of makes it seem like OP was an AP.[/quote]

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