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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH has a very close female friend that he's known for ages. They text, talk, go to the movies, etc. on their own. She also comes over and does stuff with our family. I have no issues.

But if he just met some younger women and started hanging with them--and didn't introduce to me--I would find it very odd, particularly with young kids at home (barely enough time to see old friends, much less new). And the last time I knew a man who was meeting up with a women he met in a book-related context (they were both writers/aspiring writers) an affair developed from it.

So, I would be okay with #1. The rest would set off alarm bells, at the very least suggest that he is investing his free time with new female friends rather than with his family or older friends or friends of both spouses. [/quote]
+1 I think all except #1 would be strange. He's going out of his way to develop friendships with these women. Idk I would be pretty uncomfortable with this unless he was very upfront about it and I was invited (even if I declined to go)- like "I'm meeting so and so tonight. Want to join?"[/quote]

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