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Reply to "Need advice - I have zero attraction to DH and avoid sex"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If OP is major breadwinner then what type of job does he have that requires 70 hours a week? I get why OP would be resentful if she has to make the bulk of the money AND do most of the household mgmt. And it is the simmering resentment that is generating her reaction. [/quote] THIS. No matter how much he works during the week, you should not be doing 100% of the household management. Have a come to Jesus that you can't shoulder it all and delegate some tasks to him. And tell him he can't touch or initiate sex for 7 days (or whatever makes sense). I'm willing to bet is you are just tapped out and DH acting as needy puts you over the top. It's OK and normal to feel this way, but if you are going to recover you need to be honest with DH. If you love him and you want to make it work then you owe him your honesty. Marriage counseling if you can't do these things on your own.[/quote]
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