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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You both sound very unhappy and intent on blaming the other person for what happened, even though it wasn't anyone's fault. You're going to need counseling to see how your behaviors affected each other and still do. Otherwise one of you has to be the bigger person and apologize first. [b]It doesn't sound like it's going to be him[/b].

Do you still suffer from depression? You seem like you're having trouble accepting your role in this situation. And I'm saying this as someone who also had severe ppd, and apologized to DH without any qualifiers. 
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It doesn't sound like it's going to be her, either. 
OP, my mom has bipolar. She put my family through hell about 9 years ago. She finally got on the right meds and saw things clearly for the first time in a very long time. And you know what she did? She made amends for what she did to us. She didn't hide behind an illness, she took responsibility for her actions [i]despite[/i] being ill, because you know what? She still actually did those things, said those things, etc. It sounds like you did, too. You are the only one responsible for your actions, and it sounds like [i]for that time period[/i] you were actually a bitch. Say sorry, mean it, and move on. What's your choice, really? Stay in this stand off?
P.S. Your husband also sounds like a dick, but if you want to stay married, break the stand off. [/quote]

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