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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think my DH loves me, but not quite sure he is/was ever in love. He is a great father and husband, but never seemed to be particularly wild about me. He gives fantastic gifts, but it's clear it's more of a duty he is fulfilling. 
I don't know how else to say it- just something I sense.[/quote]

Well, sometimes men don't communicate unhappiness about things but they do stuff like this and act in this way - going through the motions.

You shouldn't be asking and stressing about whether he loves you enough or not you should be trying to figure him out more.
What makes him happy? What makes him unhappy? What can you do for him so that he falls deeply in love with you again?
Have it come from YOU rather than questioning him and see how it goes.

We don't do this put me on a pedestal thing like others have been posting (and you know what? I ran from guys who treated me that way. It's too weird for me) but I have noticed that as I've been more attentive to his needs (a concerted effort over the past year) and done nice things for him he now talks to me a lot more. He talks to me a lot more about what's going on in his life, his feelings and just about anything (politics, sports, work). I love this as I want a partner and friend. We are much more connected and it's very fun and fulfilling.

He still gets me sucky presents because he's not good at that but ive decided I don't care about that anyway.

What is it that you want from him most?[/quote]

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