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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When one spouse lies to the other, they give up some of their privacy rights. [/quote] +1. I was never a snooper. Would not have dreamed of looking into my now exDH's personal stuff. Then I found out by accident that he had cheated. I confronted him immediately, expecting he would be honest. (Dumb expectation, I know.). After that, over the course of the next 2 years, I systematically snooped and searched and what I found blew my mind. We split up and my ex was eventually diagnosed as bipolar, which explained but did not excuse a lot of behavior. I am glad I snooped. It let me know the truth about my situation and gave me the power to make decisions based on accurate information. The real question is, in future relationships without any prior justification, would I snoop? I don't think so, but I do think that I would drop anyone who viewed me as someone from whom they had to keep things private or secret.[/quote]
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