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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the LDS.  DH is so mean to me and has said so many cutting things that I cannot pull up the emotion to try.  I get that it means caring/connection to him on an intellectual level, but he has ripped me down so much, I have nothing to give, and I fear that opening up to him will only expose me to more hurt.  At this point, I am emotionally in survival mode and self protection mode.[/quote]

Who would want to ever touch someone who was so cruel to you? You need out, PP.[/quote]

I am probably staying for financial reasons.  We have two kids with SNs who are on his medical insurance plan and I work 1/2 days so that I can run them around to appointments and such the other 1/2 of the days.  Being part-time, I do not have medical through my work but through his, and I only make a little bit of $$.

He is probably going to seek out a separation and then divorce once the kids are bigger, though.  He lobs this at me during arguments.

His parents had a similarly awful marriage and then have settled into an amicable truce once the kids were grown and they are now retired with less stress.  I guess that is the best I am hoping for?

Also, we are Catholic and I really believe in fighting for marriage, I guess.  [/quote]

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