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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You will F up your daughter forever if you do this. [/quote]

So helpful!  Go away.

My mom did this.  It was hard.  I loved her fiercely.  I saw her randomly, sometimes once or twice a month, and sometimes once or twice a year.  I wanted her so badly when she was there, and it was difficult.  I always had a strong relationship wih her, and felt loved for who I was, all the time.  I had a dysfunctional home life with my dad and his new wife.  I think she saw that and tried to make my limited times with her full of letting me be me.  Anyway, it did cause some craziness in my life in my twenties, with relationships with women, and now as a mother.  Sometimes that is harder.  But I'm a content adult now in my late thirties.  Don't leave because of feeling like a bad mother.  Get help for yourself, get some help for parenting differently if therapy and/or antidepressants don't help in that area.  Take more time for yourself.  I wish I'd been able to see my mom more.  If you do find eventually that it really isn't for you, do what you can to stay in their lives as regularly as possible.

Peace to you, aside from pp above, we are thinking of you.  I hope your appt goes well.  ((Hug))[/quote]

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