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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you embarrassed that your relationship started as an affair? What did your friends and family think? were children involved?[/quote]

Not at all, you can't help who you fall in love with. They didn't like it at first, but they see how happy we are together. He has one kid with his ex. We're TTC now.[/quote]

Yeah, that's what they say to your face because people are afraid of conflict and it would be too awkward to share with you what they tell to each other.  I have a few cheaters who are friends and family, I'm pleasant to them because it's not my job to be the morality police, but my respect for them has dropped immensely.[/quote]

OMG, and the play dates at these crazy family house are such a nightmare to deal with. I wish I could just say, no my kid is not allowed at your crazy house. But I just keep saying "sorry we are busy AGAIN"[/quote]

+1 It was awkward enough doing playdates with the cheater dad, but at least I could tell myself that it was about our kids' friendship and I shouldn't punish a nice kid because his dad was an ass.  But then dad makes a playdate, I take my kid to the house and the only adult at home is the homewrecker (of course they moved in together immediately) playing wife and mommy.  So I got stuck having to answer "Who was that lady, she's not Larlo's mom, why does she live there?" and I had to figure out what to say to the ex-wife who is a very nice woman who I like a lot.  Never again![/quote]

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