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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yikes, 20:19, that's not just controlling, it's more full-on emotional abuse.

My childhood best friend with the loving but controlling husband--he does things like he shuts down certain conversation topics, insists they share one email account and he reads all her email, makes them stick to very strict schedules and regimens, and that kind of thing. [/quote]

So what's stopping her from setting up her own email?  It kind of sounds like he caught her cheating.  Maybe she left that out of her story.[/quote]

No, she didn't cheat. You don't get it, do you. Controlling men don't need you to give any signs of cheating to be paranoid about it. For her, it's less trouble to share the email and not have him accusing her of hiding things. I don't think it's healthy, obviously, but it's not my relationship. [/quote]

How would you know whether she cheated or not?  She's sitting there bad mouthing her husband and it does sound from her description that she was caught red handed cheating or perhaps engaging in very sketchy behavior in that direction.  Him being "loving" is inconsistent with her description of him as "controlling."

Also you completed evaded a very simple question, which was:  How exactly is he stopping her from setting up her own email account?  How would he even know about it?  She's a liar, or you are.  Or both.[/quote]

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