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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of my friends is engaged to a cool guy she met on OK Cupid.  Both of them had dated a fair amount online before meeting each other, so I asked them for their advice.   I said I'd gotten rejected a few times by guys much older than me because they wanted to have kids and I was probably too old to have more.  (I was 38.)

The guy said, "A lot of these guys don't actually want kids.  They just want a woman who is young enough to have them.  They think it's more socially acceptable to date women much younger than themselves if they say it's so they can have kids.  I already have two kids.  I don't want any more.  But my dating profile said I want kids because younger women want to see that."

So some of these guys may not actually want kids - they just want to appear dateable by women who want them and are young enough to have them.  [/quote]

We don't care about a lot of things. If kids make her happy, fine. We're not farmers who need sons, we're not royalty who need heirs. Kids? Yeah, whatever. Kids, dogs, same thing. Actually kids are cool when they are old enough to go to a XMen movies with dad, cause mom ain't goin, right?[/quote]

Maybe that's why my fiancé loves me? I'm a huge fangirl.[/quote]

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