Reply to Thinking of ending relationship with my sister

Forum Index » Family Relationships

Reply to "Thinking of ending relationship with my sister"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Grow the fuck up.  My sister did precisely what you are proposing with my two brothers.  It blew the whole fucking family up.  Nieces and nephews no longer have aunts and uncles, siblings no longer talk to one another, children have taken sides against their parents.  Adults do not behave this way.  She didn't even have to have any contact with them.  This formal declaration was more about her childishness than it was about my brothers' admittedly bad behavior.  When dealing with family it isn't all about you.  Your actions have tentacles that reach to everyone else.  Every time I see one of these posts, I can't help but think did you people never move beyond middle school emotionally?[/quote]

And whenever I see responses like yours, I can't help but think you people are just angry that you don't have the courage to do what the OP is contemplating and are angry that you're stuck in an abusive situation.  Or, you're angry because the sibling that cut everyone off isn't around for you to abuse anymore.  Regarding formal declarations: you'd still be pissed even if she just faded away and didn't make the formal declaration.

OP - do what is healthiest for you. 
[/quote]

"Abusive"? You don't know real abuse if you chalk up petty sibling fights/rivalry/issues to being "abused." People like the OP and yourself are the real toxic forces in a family and a community. They are selish and petulant and actively hurt people who love them very much. I have been on the receiving end of a sister who brutally cut me out of her life. We had flights, it was NOT worth losing a family member. [/quote]

Actually I am quite familiar with emotional abuse.

When your sister cut you out of her life did you ever stop and ask yourself why she did that?  Clearly she thought you were worth losing.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics