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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For heaven's sake, once he cheated he ok'd you to check up on him and be accountable. You should have been spot checking him monthly since the cheating. It sickens me that anyone would throw 17 years away for a hole in a mattress, and many with kids.

I would get to the bottom of it, not say a word then have TORTUOUS fun with the cheaters. I posted this on the other forum about cheaters, so I will again. I would [b]pretend to get hang up calls, and tell him how weird it is[/b]. (he will think SHE is doing it) Wait a few weeks or month, and send yourself some sexy thongs in the mail..anonymous of course. Ask your husband if he did that, he will freak really thinking the MISTRESS is messing with his life.

DON'T LET ON YOU KNOW HE IS CHEATING. Many are stupid and do this, act SUPER nice during this period.

Please let us know what you find out, don't wait follow him...get a gps for his car etc. Just get the info. [/quote]

NP here.  I would love to do this, but if I did, dh would immediately check the phone for recent calls to get to the bottom of it.  Any other ideas for tortuous fun?  Would love to hear them!  My dh is very techie so I fear that he'd know if I checked his phone, ipad, computer, etc.

To OP, so sorry you are going through this.  It absolutely sucks.

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