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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't stop the friendship, but I see why op is a little upset. My dd's friend (2nd grade) invited her over for a sleepover but won't let her dd over to our house. My anxious dd is not ready for a sleepover, but it kind of hurts that she feels like my dd is in no danger at her house, but hers could be at my house. [/quote] Why would it hurt your feelings unless yours is the only house her DD can't go to? Why don't you understand that there is a difference between my house where I KNOW nothing will happen vs your house, where I can be 85% sure that nothing will happen? Btw, I'm not in this situation because I am fine with sleepovers, I am just trying to point out that hurt feelings are silly because these decisions have nothing to do with you, but everything to do with another person's risk tolerance. It's not about you![/quote]
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