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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It always amazes me no one ever asks if maybe it's not at the top of the list.  Some people don't like ice cream, or candy so I assume it's the same with sex. I've known people where it's at the bottom of the list.  There's men who won't communicate or for-fill their wife's needs, yet expect her to for-fill theirs.

It could be a lot of things, possibly she is tired from a busy life. She may feel it's more chore she doesn't need at the end of the day.  It may be as other posters suggested she's not attracted. Happens as people age, they can still love their partner but not be as attracted.

If you have good communication, finances are stable, and everything else is working you're doing pretty good imo.[/quote]

Exactly.  I mean, I can masturbate and have an amazing orgasm.  Unfortunately for most women, PIV sex just doesnt do it for them.

So it's pretty damn selfish to expect them to carve out however many minutes per night, when they are exhausted, to sit their idly and basically have you use their body as a masturbation tool.

If you REALLY cared about her pleasure and enjoyment of sex, you would realize that she is OKAY WITH NOT HAVING, and you would back the hell off.  If you want more sex, you can try to make yourself more appealing, try to do things so she wont be as tired.

But what you really need to do is ACCEPT that her libido is different from yours and you'll probably have to just jerk off if you want that orgasm.  Women are not robots, we can not immediately ramp up sexual desire when we JUST DON'T HAVE IT.  So if she doesnt have any for you, accept that and either try to create some or let it the hell go.  Unless you really think it's hot to a wife who clearly dreads being touched by you. [/quote]

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