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[quote=Anonymous]Oh, I am so sympathetic to you. I am a DW and my DH never initiates. I think he likes what we do when we do it, but he never initiates and often just seems plain old uninterested. We are working on this in therapy now.

Have you told your DW it actually hurts you to not feel like you are an object of desire for her, and that you NEED her to  make this a priority, plan for it, and take action? That just giving you quickies in the shower makes you feel like she is not into it and is treating it like a chore?

You said you are going on a family vacation--do you ever go on a vacation that's just the two of you? If she likes massages (you say she booked one), how about you start giving her massages at home? If you don't know how, read a book or watch a video or something. You need to mix things up. And make it clear that you are interested in *her* and that you want to know what's going on inside her and why things are the way they are. You need to make it clear you are not happy and that you guys could have a much closer relationship. [/quote]

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