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[quote=Anonymous]I agree that it doesn't have to be "fair." DH and I have tried to do things that way for years and it just never works out. We can try to see each extended family 3 times/year but then someone's cousin gets married and we wind up seeing my family 4 times and his twice...In the long run it evens out. I agree that it also isn't about the distance alone. 3 hour trips with no kids are 4-5 hour trips with kids. I'd just decide on how often you feel like you are able to handle this as a family and then go down there that many times per year. The end. And I also agree, just get a hotel. DH is always resistant to this because it's a "waste of money" to pay when there's a free place to stay, but I totally disagree. We have compromised on doing some of each--stay in the ILs' home one visit, hotel the next. It's been fine. [/quote]
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