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Reply to "DH doesn't include me in decisions that affect us as a family"
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[quote=Anonymous]Look OP, even if you don't plan on leaving, you need to let him know it's a possibility if his behavior does not change. Sometimes for people to really look at themselves they need to experience the possibility of losing it all. When you talk to him make sure you let him know that you care about his family as well, but you need to feel like you are an equal in the marriage. Are your finances joint? My DH and I decided if we want to make a purchase over $50 we need to consult the other person (unless it's regular stuff like food). All of our finances are joint though, so we both have complete control over all the accounts. Also, another thing I tell my DH is he is not allowed to ask me something when he has someone on the phone, he needs to tell them that he'll talk to me and get back to them. He used to just ask me while he was on the phone with them and that would make it really awkward for me to so no. [/quote]
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