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[quote=Anonymous]Just coming across this discussion and wondering what ever happened. My experience was similar but spouse did it with a friend he considered family. I felt upset a lot. Spouse made decisions without consulting me. I went along because I felt I had no choice an our arguments went over and over again. Friend was supposed to stay 2 weeks, turned into 3 months, supposed to buy a car from us, got it and didn't have money to pay. Wanted us to be guardians for their kids and husband said yes with out consulting me. So I thought long and hard and decided I wasn't going to divorce. Yes, other things had happened too. But  after having 2 children now in their 20's decided not to leave. So after arguing, him refusing counseling, him being upset I didn't consider the friend family like he did, telling me the time was never right to talk to them about car or guardianship, and also has ga lighting...he didn't remember if he said certain things or not, I sent texts to friend and said we never loan money so please pay us for the car and we can't be guardians. Has this caused friction between me and friend...absolutely but I decided this was the only way I could handle it without leaving spouse. Also at this point I don't really feel I care what friend thinks. If spoiuse would let them move in again I would leave. Spouse is upset with what I did, but I felt that was thjhe oinly option. Noiw when he tells me about friend and latest problem I just listen, say "that's tooii bad" and go about my day.[/quote]

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