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[quote=Anonymous]I think you bring it up as how would he feel if he heard something from a 3rd party about something he didn't share directly with that person. One, you may not have chosen to share that information with that other person and two it can become a game of telephone.  Just say, he has to own the statements he says to his sister unless it is logistical in nature like my wife said our schedule is free for Christmas or we would like to have you guys over for dinner.  Any other statements need to happen directly between you and SIL to avoid these issues.

He should have said he did research in relation to you guys having kids and he thought fertility was tougher at 40.  There should have been no we or mentioning your name in that statement.  When he goofed up and she got mad after he put his foot in it, he shouldnt have brought it to you to solve. If he couldn't fix it (did he try?) he should have given you the heads up if he thought things would be frosty. What  purpose does it serve to tell you she is upset with you? I love my ILs but they sometimes drive me crazy with advanced planning.  I like to think my DH loves my parents and I know their flakiness with plans drives him crazy.  We share our frustrations with each other but never ever go to our parents with the statement your son-in-law or daughter-in-law thinks that ...

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