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[quote=Anonymous]What would the boyfriend do if he couldn't stand your mother or what if you couldn't stand his father?  Would it be expected that you cut the person out of your life?

I guess the bottom line conversation is does the boyfriend want to marry you? If he does, what do you both need to do to have a successful marriage?  On your end, maybe having firmer boundaries with the ex.  If you read the family threads it often comes down to the person not having firm boundaries with their family and allowing it to negatively impact his/her partner.  The other side of it is yes, your ex is a jerk, that's why you are divorced. Knowing that is how the ex behaves me and that you share custody of the kids, what are the things he thinks you could be doing that you aren't?  Are there things he can do to help defuse the situation?  Maybe pre-marital counseling to help you both navigate this.  Definitely don't move in until you figure this out. If he isn't willing to put in the work and try to work on this issue with you, then he isn't the one for you.[/quote]

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