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[quote=Anonymous]Interesting thread to me. My husband and I are footing our daughter's college life at more than $60,000 a year. She wanted an apartment so we stipulated that if we visited we get to crash on her sofa. She agreed but the one and only time we visited she suggested we stay in a hotel. I'm thinking of saying the same to her if she ever comes back. My DH and I just think it's fun to share her life for a little bit. We aren't trying to intrude. We don't need to be comfortable. We need to be with her for a period of time that feels like we are still family. Maybe this isn't about money but acceptance? OP, would you be insulted if they asked you to stay in a hotel when you visit? Do your parents stay in a hotel? If they do then mention this in a positive manner and maybe he IL's will rethink their place.[/quote]
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