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Reply to "My current boyfriend and his opinion about my ex husband"
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[quote=Anonymous]My thoughts are you need to seriously reconsider him as your boyfriend. My feelings are he wants out of the relationship, but is too immmature to say so he's putting it on you. It's been 2 years he should know by now if he wants to marry you and understand that marrying you means dealing with your ex from time to time. As a pp mentioned he should be supporting you not using it against you. He should also understand how important and healthy it is for the kids to get along amicably as possible, and adding tons of rules isn't going to accomplish that. Also consider any rules you put in place should be rules you yourself are willing to follow should a new wife appear. Also your kids are at an age or getting to an age were their opinions matter when it comes to visitation if you allow your boyfriend to make things difficult it could mean your kids requesting to spend more time with if not live with dad, or once they re 18 + not spend time with you at all because they resent your boyfriend. Lastly, he's your BOYFRIEND. He's got you in a tizzy and he can't even be bothered to make any kind of serious comittment to you. Do not move in with him before at the very minimum getting engaged, and don't force your kids to move so you can shack up with your boyfriend.[/quote]
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