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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in a second marriage and I feel the same toward my husband's ex.  I've been married awhile (5+ years) and had I known then how much this would have bothered me, I never would have gotten married.

It wasn't like this in the beginning.  His ex wasn't around and the kids were little, I was nice to her when I interacted but that was it.  In the first few years we were married, the ex started taking my husband to court time after time and it was really stressful.  There were awful things said about my husband but then there started to be complaints about ME.  Then my stepkids started complaining to the ex about me (little things) and the ex started to threaten me with texts and phone calls.  She called the police on ME several times and CPS.  None of it was ever valid, she just likes to harass people like that.

Now that the kids are teens I know that I don't have to see their mom probably ever again but I really have bad feelings and it effects me personally.  I worry that my feelings will show and my stepkids will be affected in some way.

Maybe this is just my issue but I think that it is a good thing for your BF to be cautious.  [/quote]

This is not uncommon. As long as you don't say anything negative about her, I wouldn't worry.  I would never attend anything where she would be and after the police thing which is beyond serious I would expect your dh to do the same.  If the kids ask they are old enough to know how their mom harassed the two of you, and why you can't go near her. That's another whole ball game. Sad but the kids have a angry nutjob for a mom, and whose to say she wouldn't do the same again. [/quote]

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