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[quote=Anonymous][quote][b]Any kind of contact, even negative, is seen as encouragement to a stalker. [/b][/quote]

^^^THIS

OP, please ignore the well-meaning advice to contact him once more, or have your husband contact him once more.  His wife asked you to stop contacting him.  You agreed.  He knows this.  You would not be giving him new information by asking him to stop, except to tell him that you will engage with him if he is willing to harass you X number of times.

Keep a record.  Inform your local police department -- even if they can't do anything yet, if it rises to the level of actionable behavior, they'll have the record of his actions on file.  Set up a filter for your email and direct all his emails to a particular folder, so you won't have to see it every day, but you can check it periodically.  Keep his emails and his cards, and keep a note of when he calls.  Odds are that he will move on if he gets no response from you, but if not, these records will be invaluable.[/quote]

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