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[quote=Anonymous]OP, the 2-year residency requirement is a bitch! But hey, he knew what he signed up for.

Before I married DH, I was the one subject to the requirement. He may try to go for a waiver, but his chances are slim to none. It really boils down to your relationship. He is the man. It's his job to pursue you, not the other way around. (Yes, ladies and gents, please forgive my un-American views on this.) If he wants to be with you, he'll figure it out.

If I were in your shoes, I'd expect this guy to marry me and take me to Brazil for two years, or longer if we liked it there. My two years sucked more, because American bf, then fiance didn't speak the language at all. It made no sense to leave a perfectly good situation for a Peace-corps-type stint like teaching English or something. Anyway, we toughed it out. The bottom line he wanted to marry me like I was the only woman in this world, and he didn't let go of me long-distance or not. He made it work. I respected him for that. Good luck to you.[/quote]

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