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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really wouldn't call the parent.

You already know that two children (or were told that there were only two, it may not be entirely accurate) were not invited and yours was one of them.

If you call this parent, they are either going to 
1. Make up a white lie "oh Gracie thought she invited her, you must not have gotten the evite"
2. Get an earful about your daughter that you don't want to hear 
3. No response at all

But guaranteed this will be talked about with other parents, friends and possibly even the students if the daughter gets wind of it and it will be even more focus on your daughter.

Is that what you want? Or do you must want this to be over and move on.[/quote]

4.  Make things worse for your daughter at school.  This will likely blow over in a day ot two, but  having you  call teacher  or the other parent will get her labeled a baby and really kill her socially.

Help her come up with a snarky ( not mean ) comeback for being called   a party ccrasher,  that's what she should have done when the boy approached her at the party..
Let her know that she is older now and that means she won't get to go to every party and that's okay- better to have a few close true friends, now is the time to learn the difference between someone you say hi to, aquaintances, and real friends

A good chat for you might be asking her she might want to think really hard about someone who only wants to play with her when other people are not  around.[/quote]

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