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[quote=Anonymous]op, let me be the dissenting voice here. is this a regular gig or a one time deal? sounds like a one time deal, and if that is true, I would think it would be fine to find a way to enjoy some of the cash as a perk for yourself. SAHM on a tight budget is not all bons bons and fun activities. is there a way you can kill two birds with one stone, ie, instead of a shirt, can you buy something that benefits the house as a whole? bad example, but let me use it anyway: a breadmaker, which could be used for the household good, abut activity with your child, etc? try to make a win win of it... to echo some of the other comments, get more creative about your finances. you sound like you are in a stalemate with your husband, who cl sounds legitimately tired. can you give him some massages and make special dinners, maybe prestock some extra dinners that can go in the freezer, so you don't have to worry about your family's nutritional situation when you are notthere? in any case, you need to find your way out ofnthis black and white / binary power struggle. [/quote]
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