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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OP here. DH is an abuse victim, so he won't speak up. I will, but it would end things with MIL, because I would inevitably tell her how I really feel. She has said some unimaginable things. I, OTOH, am no one's victim, and consider Mil lucky that I have not yet said anything to her - especially since she is so checked out, oblivious, nasty and bitter. She is the type of person who is not happy, unless you are at least as equally unhappy. She has a ton of issues, and is a cold, bitter, lonely individual. I am not professionally equipped to handle her issues, so I basically stay out of it. DH's family does not address anything - heck, they barely communicate, on a good day. Suffice to say that my family is the opposite, in every way possible. DH married me because I am so unlike his mom, and I love it when people are different, and was taught to celebrate differences. Mil is not having any of it - you conform - her way or the highway. [/quote] Look, regardless of who is right or wrong, it is obvious that you have some strong feelings about your MIL and are not going to be able to go and make nice. So say no. [/quote]
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