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[quote=Anonymous]Boundary setting is not a family affair, it's an individual pursuit. You need to set limits and be extremely specific, "you are not allowed to discuss my mother/father in my presence". You need to set a clear consequence "if you say something in the presence of me or my children then we will keave the event or ask you to leave our home". You then need to follow through. I suggest you write this in a letter and not meet with everyone since that will just be a big fight. and I suggest you state in the letter "this is not up for debate or discussion, this is final and I won't explain further." Be clear and specific, use as few words as possible, state the consequence and follow through. Good luck.[/quote]
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