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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

To clarify, we all live in DC/NOVA and get together at least once a month, if not more often. My MIL has no daughter and always wished that she did, so my SIL (who is also my DH's SIL) asked her to host the shower (this is her first grandkid). SIL's mom and sisters (who are all in DC/NOVA areas) are helping and very hands-on, so I wasn't involved in the planning.

DH just talked to his brother (not related to this) and [b]in the conversation he asked if I was coming to the shower[/b], so it's more likely that she simply forgot. I really hope that's the case. It is possible that she assumed I'm coming any way and didn't bother sending an invitation (just like the wedding). But I wasn't informed about the time/date/location of the shower. I don't like confrontations, so I didn't ask about it, either (I probably should have).
 
Either way, she should know by now that I didn't get the invitation and that it hurt my feelings. I really hope I get an email or a message apologizing for a blunder, so that I can put all this behind.

DH said he will talk to his mom to explains the situation so that she wouldn't wonder why I didn't show up.

God, in-law relationships are always so complicated!

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WTF?  Why didn't your DH mention you didn't receive an invite?

Honestly - this could be the sort of thing that your SIL gave you MIL a guest list of her friends/family, fully expecting your MIL to add you to it.

Also - if you need an apology for not being invited to a baby shower, you need some therapy.[/quote]

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