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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP.  So I wasn't pregnant when we lost our baby but DH and I skipped town pretty quickly after services were done.  We had services right away mostly for our family and less for us (we later had a private ceremony with just me and DH where we scattered her ashes and planted a tree in our yard).

Here is the only thing you need to worry about right now (other than being with your family of course).  What happens after she passes?  Do you have it arranged where she will be cremated?  That's really the only thing I can think of right now that you need to have planned.

Then I'd recommend you and DH booking a hotel room as far as your travel restrictions allow you to and grieve.  Don't go home right away.  I wish I hadn't.  I cleaned out everything in between sobs and anger.  And then later when I had calmed down, I was sad that I had just taken apart everything without thinking.  (thankfully my mom was wise and intervened unbeknownst to me and stored everything at her house because she was rightly worried I'd regret my fit of throwing things out).

I'm really sorry OP.  It gets easier but it doesn't really ever get totally better. [/quote]

sorry op.  this sounds like great advice.  maybe your daughter will pull through.  [/quote]

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