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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I advise you to postpone the wedding awhile more.

Reason being, you are having some doubts already. These may be valid ones too that are just now coming to the surface and may be caused by age, experience and/or pressure.

A bride should expect her wedding day to be the best day ever in her life thus far. She should feel like a princess all day and expect to make wonderful memories for the rest of her life.

And the idea of being Mrs. ______ should be exciting just in thought.

If you seriously have zero anticipation when thinking of walking down that aisle, don't do it.

Allow yourself more time to be engaged and look at your relationship as a whole to determine if this is in fact what you truly want.

Hope this helps.[/quote]

WTF??!!  PP above, i really hope you are a troll.  hubby and i eloped.  kept my last name. we are SOOOOO glad we didn't blow our money on a big crazy miserable awkward overpriced ceremony most people don't have fun at.  and i feel extremely lucky to be married to my best friend.  i sure as hell never got to be a princess and luckily married someone with way too much sense to marry one, because, trust me, you both will fall off those pedestals fast and it will be a big bummer if that's what you're into (unless its some kind of role play bedroom thing in which case knock yourselves out.)  what you should really ask yourself is, if you guys were just gonna elope, no fanfare, no prizes, no aisles or veils, would you still wanna stand up together in your good dress suits and sign legal binding contracts to be in business together forever. if so, then head to vegas, baby, (or wherever destination you fancy)  your friends and family will be secretly thanking you for it.   and get on with being married, which is the <real> & good part.[/quote]

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