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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I believe it was an emotional rather than physical affair ... I found short love notes he texted to her on our home computer when I was checking on a young son's Internet use. No, never went to counseling. [b]I am a stay at home mom with no chance of decent job now that I am 50 and also do not wish to lose a single day of custody of my only child. [/b]Trying to stick it out until child is done with high school, for my own sake more than his. We do not fight and get along okay. But no,love or trust or true happiness any more. Thanks for listening.[/quote]

Honey, you need to face some facts.  Your marriage has been over for a long time.  It's likely your husband will dump you once your DC graduates.  Even if he doesn't, it seems you are contemplating divorce.  You need to get back into the workforce.  You need to do whatever it takes to make yourself marketable.  You don't need a 'decent' job, you need a JOB.  You don't want 'to lose a single day of custody of your only child'?  WAKE UP!  Your child is in high school!  Your child will be leaving soon - unless you're one of those people who never has their own life and clings to their child well beyond they should let go.  You should have seen this coming a long time ago bu tit's not too late to develop an exit plan.[/quote]

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