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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does anyone have good experiences to share?

[b]My parents (active, late 50's) sold their house and moved cross country to my neighborhood when we got pregnant.[/b] They're adamant that they want to care for our baby after my maternity leave ends and until the baby goes to preschool. I knew they wanted to be involved, but I was kind of blown away by this. Mom is retired, but spent her life around small children and dad teleworks full time.

We have an excellent relationship, but I just wonder how much control I lose over the baby? It also puts them on a very unequal ground with DH's parents (who both work and don't live nearby). Mom's first reaction when we said we were pregnant was how excited she was that now we won't travel to my inlaws for Christmas every other year and we'll stay home and she can see us every Christmas. [/quote]

OP.  This would make me nervous.  They uprooted their entire life and left it behind so they could now build their entire life around your unborn baby?  I don't know but this just doesn't sound very healthy at all.

I would be very uncomfortable about this dynamic.  I think they will end up acting like the baby's parents and it will create a lot of issues for you and your husband.  You and your husband need time/space to develop your own family.

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