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[quote=Anonymous]I don't like the way she went for the jugular - literally attacking you with the intent to hurt you as deeply as possible. And all because you drank the water - wtf?

I like the way you handled things - you didn't tolerate it and went home. She may be the kind of person who can't respect you unless you stick up for yourself against her abuse. But she'll probably keep testing your boundaries this way - projecting all of her insecurity, etc on you, attacking you for it then coming back the next day with an apology.

It's unacceptable behavior. If you stay with her, you need to let her know that and stick to your guns. Don't let this become a pattern where she abuses you, you stick up for yourself and she comes back with her tail between her legs - that's a really easy (and unhealthy) pattern to get stuck in.

I highly doubt that you've never seen such behavior in her before. If you stay with her despite her abuse, you need to ask yourself why you want to be with someone like this.

If you were my son i would really want you to leave the relationship - I think many of us are old enough to be your mother and have lived and learned which is why we're telling you to get out. There are plenty of young women who wouldn't treat you this way.[/quote]

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