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[quote=Anonymous]I appreciate the advice. I would love to not be involved but I really feel my mother is out of line and impacting Christmas for 4 other people. I am looking into a car service and decided to let Larla know tonight what my mother is planning so she isn't ambushed over breakfast. Inviting Larlita is not possible regardless of me feelings toward her. She is incontinent and prone to falls. We would have to hire a nursing aide to accompany her. I am calmer now, but still irritated when I realize that instead of relaxing tonight, I'll spend time today planning an alternative to Larla driving. I also need a plan in place to stop my mother from attempting this again on the grounds that Larla owes her and Larlita. There has to be some point where you no longer owe someone for some kindness they showed you or another family member years ago. I worry that in my mother's opinion, my own children are inheriting some debt of time for something done for me in the past.[/quote]
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